oh, the pressure! asking me to recommend a fragrance is like asking me to recommend a mascara or a pair of jeans (or anything uber-personal, really). fragrance is so much dictated by your own taste, memories, associations, and preferences and what I love might be wildly repellant to you. all that said, the scents that I’ve been wearing are: Hermes Hermessence Rose Ikebana (a super light and delicate rose, not at all cloying); Prada Infusion de Tubereuse (a green floral scent, quite fresh but also femme); Tom Ford Neroli Portofino (probably the most “hey! you’re wearing fragrance!” scent I own) and Kai Perfume Oil—there’s nothing I love more than the scent of jasmine and this one makes me so happy. my top tip? go to Sephora and test two scents at a time (this might require multiple trips, poor you)—one on each wrist. smell it once you spray it, then walk around the mall and smell it again after 30 minutes/1 hour (known as the “dry-down”). see what you love at both points and go forth and splurge!